Posted by Zelina Alexander in Black Love Advice, Love Horoscopes

Hello, beautiful people! I’m back again with another installation of our 6 Traits of Zodiac Signs segment of at

This segment of the series is all about Aries, the first of the 12 Zodiac Signs. The Mystic Ram is one of the three Fire Signs of the Zodiac. People born during the Aries season of the year are some of the most adventurous, ambitious, and action-oriented individuals you’ll ever meet in your life.

They have a major appetite for excitement and they’re always open to trying new things. The Aries is the kind of person who doesn’t sit around and wait for things to happen. They strongly desire having a sense of accomplishment and they are natural go-getters.

However, like all the rest of the signs, the Aries has their fair share of drawbacks, which might make them incompatible with certain kinds of people. Their assertiveness can easily be mistaken for pushiness. The Aries can also be looked at as domineering and manipulative because of how they assert themselves.

With that being said, let’s dig deep into the good, the bad, and everything in between that has to do with the people who have this very unique Zodiac sign. Enjoy!

The Good

People with the Aries Zodiac sign care deeply about who and what is important to them. They also very giving individuals. They love to play the role of shepherd, but they always feed the flock before they feed themselves. The Aries is the kind of person who will surprise everyone after a business lunch at the group’s preferred restaurant and pick up the tab for everyone. There’s this unwavering desire in the Aries to make a big difference in the lives of every person who is around them.

The Aries is not the type of person who lets a difficult life situation keep them down. They don’t like making excuses and they don’t like hearing them. People with the fire sign of the Mystic Ram don’t let life kick them in the rear forever. They are realistic, truthful, and they deal with whatever consequences come their way in a courageous fashion. The Aries always has a backup plan when things don’t work out in their favor. This makes them great people to be in love with when an unexpected adversity comes up in a relationship. When in doubt, keep calm and let your Aries handle it.

The Aries is a high-energy person with a big appetite for affection and intimacy. They are very expressive when it comes to their sexuality. The Aries possess the gift of seduction and they put their all into pleasing a lover beyond their wildest imagination. You definitely have to bring your A-game if you’re looking to reciprocate the level of intimacy you get from an Aries. They can last all twelve rounds and they won’t let you down.

The Bad

People with the Aries sign have a natural take charge approach to life. However, in a relationship, this strong personality trait has the potential to cause problems. As stated earlier in this segment, the Aries is a very assertive individual. Because of this, they can possess an unwavering desire to impose their will. The Aries can also lose their ability to tone this domineering personality trait down at times. This can create problems in resolving conflict in a relationship when it’s time for an Aries to admit they are wrong.

Acting impulsively is sometimes a good thing when it comes to romantic spontaneity. Everyone could use a great surprise every now and then. However, when it comes to making rational decisions about things that are more serious, you have to spend a good amount of time developing forethought prior to making a decision. The Aries is a very decisive person, but they can act on impulse at the wrong times. This can lead to a steady diet of misunderstandings and frustration in romantic relationships. Money matters are a good example. Major purchases and other financial decisions have to be a joint effort and sometimes the Aries has a hard time understanding that.

The Aries is a confident person most of the time. They are very much proud of what they believe is great about themselves. However, this can lead them to being unapologetically self-righteous when they are called out on what can be sometimes be perceived as grandiosity. At times in romantic relationships, both parties are equally wrong when it comes to what causes conflict. When dealing with an Aries in such a scenario, it can be hard to reach a solution because they can sometimes see themselves as incapable of being irresponsible.

In love, some people need a person to make up for who they are not. Others are the type who have a strong desire to be that saving grace for such a person. The Aries is definitely the latter. They love to feel like they are “completing” the person who they choose to be in a relationship with. The Aries loves hard and they fall in love quickly with a person once you pass their test.

However, every Yin needs a Yang and every Yang needs a Yin. The Aries has the potential to be both, which can be tricky to encounter. Once the Aries settles in and becomes content with their long-term role, they can provide a unique and lasting romantic experience. Sometimes, fire needs that healthy sprinkle of water or gust of wind to help fan its flames. It can cook your favorite meal, but it can also burn your house down. Overall, the Aries needs a person who is intriguing enough to light their fire and smart enough to keep it from burning aimlessly.